My Heart is Heavy, Been dating this person for over nine months, they went to the Airforce. Since they've been gone the not only been physically distant with me but emotionally as well. I love you rarely fell from their lips. When it poured out of mine. tonight I was told that "we'll be friends until we work this out"........ How can I go from lovers just straight to friends? I'm too old to be playing these games and them..... too young. I should have took heed at the beginning. But the heart wants what the heart wants, I guess huh?....